I recommend everyone to study history (particularly cultural); doctors, actors, IT professionals or
whosoever want to understand how time changes and society changes for the
betterment (Sometimes opposite of it)
of human race.
There is change going on in Indian society because of
love/social need/education i.e. inter cast/religion marriages. In past, only
few powerful were privileged to do so. Therefore it is not new thing for Indian
society, however this is the time when it should be supported more than ever
any time in past. To be world power, more stable and to create unbiased
society, India must look beyond cast and religion to avoid division of people
at political, social, cultural and mental level.
Love marriages are playing a big role in creating such
society. Mainly this generation is cause of this change, therefore they are going
to bear price of this change. They have to fight with their parents, close
relatives and society. People are being warned, tortured and killed for it;
however it is keep increasing instead of being stopped.
Why society is against it? What do we gain by not allowing
couple to marry? Owners of religion/society say that marriage should not be
allowed in same community since they might be most likely to be sisters and
brothers, which is why there should be minimum of seven generation gap(depends on society and culture) between
bride and groom , if possible. Well, logical and scientific reasoning. Not
allowing marriages in same community is related with human immune system . This cause is also supported by medical science. Otherwise
the child which would get birth by marriage in same community will have fewer
chances to survive and will have less susceptibility to deal with diseases. However,
why people are against for marriages in different cast and religion, they are
far apart from thousands of years, and there is no close relation at all. Is it all because of their false pride of cast and religion.
If we see closely, we find that it is also concerned with
social prestige. Parents think what society will say, what others will say, otherwise
in maximum cases parents are agreed on inter cast/religion marriage for the
happiness of their children. Prestige of anyone should be based on his/her moral
views, education and values. It should not be based on social heredity or
ancestral name and wealth.
Love marriages and its resistance is all because of self
conflicting life philosophy. Parents are sending their children in co-education
classes for better education and personality growth, and on the other hand they
do not want their children to marry in different cast, how it is possible.
First you are creating the surrounding for your children for inter-cast marriage
and then opposing the same. Many times in our life we take many decisions which
conflict itself at later point of time to have good/bad consequences.
I am really proud of such people who dare to take such steps
and are cause of this change. They might be not aware of it but this is what
their society needs it today badly. Entire Indian politics is based on
cast/religion, we should think beyond cast/religion to achieve extraordinary. I
hope, in next generation it should happen like nuclear chain reaction to have bigger
impact for better and unbiased society. We are the cause of this change and I
would like to say it evolution of human consciousness.
